Two be...or not two be?

Like...wowzers! A lot of my friends are having relationship problems. What's up with that? Anywho, I was inspired to just write a little something. It's not a poem, its a...? Hmm, not really sure what IT is, just read, Loves!

The chemistry is undeniable. You can look into each other's eyes, not saying a word, and share a smile. Laughing; you have created an inside joke. No one else in the world will understand, or even get the point of the joke...but, you will. Your attraction is magnetic. They have stimulated your mind so, that even your body tingles from their words. And, without a touch, you can feel them. Everything seems to be going well. And, you believe it will get better. So you take the next step. You were comfortable single, but a relationship isn't so bad...right? The vibes are good, and the sex; not perfect. Although, very satifying. You just can't seem to enough of them. You're so high that you are floating on cloud nine!

Then a call is missed, and a text not answered. You don't trip, but it does make you start to worry. Still, you bite back that eery feeling in the pit of your stomach. Yet something just isn't right. The conversation has changed. there are no more in depth converstions. Just a little chit-chat. Most times you are lucky to sneak in a 'Hi' before they say 'Bye'. Quality time? can we say: non-existent? The arguments have moved passed petty bickering. She nags, you yell, and you both walk away with no problem solved. How did things get to this point? We started off as good friends. There was a mutual attraction, butI feel like I was better off single. I just...I thought she/he was The One.

You see, not everyone you like and/or are attracted to will be the "The One". Most of the time attraction is just that. And, lust can be a beast when you are feeling vunerable. Or maybe someone you met snuck up on you. And, their vibes swept you off of your feet. That still doesn't mean it is mean to be. Many people mistake "The One" for one who is meant as a friend. Being friends is way different than a relationship. There are certain boundaries you would set for your love. But, if a friend crossed them, you could careless. Love evolving from a friendship is a beautiful thing. It is rare, but very beautiful.

Then you come across the instance where "The One" could be meant as a learning experience. There are people who are placed in our lives to help us grow. Or, maybe you've just simply run into an asshole. I've met a few in my days. I could say time and time again, that I hate that I met them, and I wished I never knew them in the first place. But, that would be painful lie. I've come from my battles with a few wounds. And, after they healed, I transform into a stronger warrior.

So, to all of you who are at war with love don't feel foolish if you come out wounded. Tend to your scars. give yourself time to recouperate and learn. Learn.